I met this guy who I have a somewhat romantic relationship with. But we only really talked every month…not every day.
We usually talked about our lives and sports and that’s basically what we did whenever I saw him. Which was 3 times.
He’s significantly older than me, so I haven’t told a lot of people about him. I feel like there’s nothing to tell sometimes though…we have no label, we were just hanging out.
The last time I saw him was the night before he deployed to Iraq. We sat on the counters of his kitchen and empty apartment just talking. I gave him a fourleaf clover and he kept saying how much he liked it.
Then it was time for me to leave and it was snowing so we scraped my car off and when I was leaving he asked for a goodbye kiss (also our first) and for me to promise to visit him in Annapolis when he gets back from his 6 month trip. I agreed to both requests.
We work for the same department so we get to e-mail each other at work. He e-mailed me a week after he got there and we talked everyday, one e-mail in/out due to the time difference.
But, I haven’t heard from him since the 31st of January and I don’t know what’s going on, and it freaks me out.